Bridesmaid
Rewɓe ko terɗe fedde jommbaajo debbo e nder kewuuji dewgal hirnaange. Jom suudu ko debbo tokooso, heewi wonde ko sehil jommbaajo oo walla banndi mum. O tawtoree jommbaajo oo ñalnde dewgal walla dewgal. E aadaaji, jommbaajo debbo ina suɓee e sukaaɓe rewɓe ɓe resndaaka, ɓe duuɓi mum en njahrata e dewgal.
Jom suudu mawɗo, so gooto toɗɗaama, ina waawi wiyeede mawɗo jommbaajo. O waawi kadi wiyeede ko debbo tedduɗo so tawii o resndaaka, walla matron tedduɗo so tawii o resndaaka. Junior bridesmaid ko suka debbo mo laaɓaani ina famɗi no feewi ngam resde kono ina jeyaa e jom suudu no fotiri fof. E nder leyɗeele dentuɗe Amerik, ko ɓuri heewde ko debbo golloowo walla matron of honor e gorko ɓurɗo moƴƴude tan ngoni seedeeji laawɗuɗi ngam heɓde yamiroore dewgal.
Heewi wonde ko ɓuri jommbaajo gooto; e jamaanu hannde oo jommbaajo oo ina suɓa no foti naamnotoo. E nder daartol, hay neɗɗo gooto jogiiɗo darnde yaltataa tawa alaa ɗo haaɗi, tee mawnugol retingol ngol ina hiisa no feewi ngam yahdude e darnde renndo galle oo. Fedde mawnde jommbaajo debbo rokki fartaŋŋe hollirde darnde renndo e ngalu galle oo. Hannde, limoore jommbaajo debbo e nder dewgal ina fawii e geɗe keewɗe, ina jeyaa heen ɓure jommbaajo debbo, mawnugol galle mum, e limoore arooɓe ɓe jom suudu mum yiɗi jogaade kadi. Heewɓe e jom en galleeji hannde ngalaa jommbaajo walla jom suudu, ɗum noon ina itta denndaangal njoɓdiiji e doole logistique jowitiiɗe heen.[1]
Darnde jokkondirnde
[taƴto | taƴto ɗaɗi wiki]Ko nanndi e gorko oo ko jom suudu, ganndiraaɗo kadi e ɗemngal Engele Angalteer ko usher. To leyɗeele dentuɗe Amerik, darnde tawtoreede jom suudu oo seerti e darnde hoɗɓe e jooɗorɗe mum en, tee darndeeji ɗiɗi ɗii nattii wonde gootum, ina keewi, so wonaa ko heewi, ko yimɓe ceertuɓe mbaɗata ɗum en.
E nder won e pine, ko wayi no Norwees, Pays-Bas, Farayse e Angalteer Victoria, ina woodi (walla ina woodi) aada wonde rewɓe jommbaajo debbo ko sukaaɓe rewɓe tokosɓe, wonaa rewɓe mawɓe. Ɓe mbaawi nawde puɗi e nder dingiral dewgal ngal, ɓe mbaɗa pose e dewgal ngal e fotooje dewgal. E nder leyɗeele haalooɓe Engele hannde ɗee, ngalɗoo darnde ina seerti e darnde jom suudu, cukalel tokosel waɗoowo ɗum ina anndiraa suka debbo puɗi.
Golle
[taƴto | taƴto ɗaɗi wiki]Nayi jommbaajo debbo ina ɓoornii gagra cholis, ko ɓoornanteeri aadaaji to Fuɗnaange Inndo
Hay so heewɓe ina ɓura ko famɗi fof, golle ɗe jommbaajo debbo oo foti waɗde ina famɗi no feewi.[2]Eɓe ɗaɓɓiree tawtoreede kewu dewgal ngal, e wallitde jommbaajo debbo oo ñalnde dewgal ngal. Rewɓe rewɓe e nder Orop e Amerik worgo ina keewi naamneede ngam wallitde jommbaajo oo e yuɓɓinde dewgal ngal e jaɓɓungal dewgal ngal. E jamaanu hannde oo, jom suudu ina heewi tawtoreede e peewnugol kewuuji jowitiiɗi e dewgal, ko wayi no ñalɗi jommbaajo walla ñalngu bachelorette, so ina woodi. Ɗee noon, ko golle cuɓaaɗe ; e wiyde ganndo etikeet biyeteeɗo Judith Martin, "Ko luutndii haala, jommbaajo debbo oo alaa e sago weltina ngam teddinde jommbaajo oo, walla ɓoornaade comci ɗi ɓe mbaawaa dañde."[3]So tawii ko aada e nder nokku jommbaajo debbo oo, ko ñalngu jommbaajo debbo oo, ndeen noon ko ñalngu nguu yuɓɓintee, e paid for4.[4]
Junior jom suudu to North Carolina, ɓoorniiɗo wutte daneejo no jom suudu oo nii.
Golle e njoɓdi wonde jom suudu ina njuutee hakkunde jom suudu e gollodiiɓe mum e laabi keewɗi. Nde tawnoo jommbaajo debbo hannde oo, hono no jommbaajo debbo oo nii, nattii waawde tuugnaade e jogaade comci mum e njoɓdi mum, tawa ko galle jommbaajo oo yoɓata ɗum, ɗum wonti aada, jommbaajo oo ina rokka jommbaajo oo dokke ngam hollirde yettoore mum e ballal e ballal kaalis garoowo e darnde mum. Ko noon kadi wonande rewɓe noddaaɓe ngam wonde jommbaajo debbo, ko adii fof ina naamnoo ko yowitii e waktuuji, doole, e kaalis mo jommbaajo oo ɗaminii e maɓɓe hade mum en jaɓde ndee ɗoo darnde, kadi ɓe njaɓa walla ɓe ngoppa golle so tawii ko ɗuum ɓuri ko ɓe mbaawi rokkude.[5] E nder won e dewgal Amerik, kala jom suudu ina waawi naamneede yo yoɓ 1 700 dolaar Amerik walla ko ɓuri ɗum, tawa ko yah-ngartaa e dewgal to bannge dewgal e ñalɗi ko adii dewgal ina heewi wonde ko ɓuri heewde e ngalu.[6]
Debbo tedduɗo
"Maayɗo teddungal" ina rewna ɗoo. Ngam kuutorɗe goɗɗe, ƴeew Maid of honor (diisnondiral).
Jom suudu (caka) e debbo mum tedduɗo (tataɓo ummoraade nano) e jommbaajo debbo. Debbo tedduɗo ina waawi seertude e mbaydi mum, ndi seerti seeɗa e jommbaajo debbo oo, kam e darnde mum e nokku tedduɗo aadaaji to bannge ñaamo lannda mawɗo oo. Tuggi 1929, to Minnesota, Amerik.
E nder leydi Biritaan, helmere "maid of honour" ndee ko debbo golloowo laamɗo debbo. Helmere ‘bridesmaid’ ndee ina heewi huutoreede e denndaangal jommbaajo debbo e nder leydi Angalteer. Kono so gardiiɗo oo ina resndaa, walla ko debbo mawɗo, helmere ‘matron d’honneur’ ina heewi huutoreede. Semmbe Engele Amerik addani mawɗo jom suudu oo sahaa e sahaa fof wiyeede ko debbo jom suudu teddungal.
E nder Amerik worgo, fedde dewgal ina waawi waɗde jommbaajo debbo keewɗo, kono ‘maid of honor’ ko tiitoonde e darnde nde mawɗo jommbaajo debbo oo jogii, ko ɓuri heewde ko sehil mum walla miñi mum debbo ɓurɗo ɓadaade ɗum. E nder dewgal hannde ngal, won e rewɓe ina cuɓoo suɓaade sehil mum en walla miñi mum en gorko ɓooyɗo, tawa ina kuutoroo tiitoonde ‘gorko ɓurɗo moƴƴude’ walla ‘gorko tedduɗo’.
Golle jommbaajo mawɗo ina mbaawi heewde walla no feewi no o acciri jommbaajo oo fawde e dow makko. Gollal makko tan ko tawtoreede kewu dewgal ngal. Kono ko ɓuri heewde, omo naamnee ballal e njuɓɓudi dewgal ngal no kewu nii, ko wayi no jokkondirde e noddaango, e ballal makko no sehil nii, ko wayi no tawtoreede jommbaajo debbo oo nde o soodata comci dewgal makko.
Gaa gaa wonde junngo ñaamo jommbaajo debbo oo, ko debbo jom suudu oo tan foti ardaade heddiiɓe ɓee e nder peewnugol kala ko ina addana dewgal ngal. Yeru, jom suudu mawɗo oo, ko kañum waɗata peeje ngam ñalngu nguu, tawa ina waɗi noddaango, paabi, ñaamdu, e kala pijirlooji walla golle ɗe mbaɗata. Kadi ko kanko woni kalfinaaɗo yuɓɓinde fedde bachelorette, haa arti noon e kala ko yowitii e yah-ngartaa walla hoɗorde nde foti yuɓɓineede.[7]Ñalnde dewgal ngal, golle makko ɓurɗe teeŋtude ko rokkude ballal e nder golle e nder ɓerɗe. O waawataa wallude jommbaajo debbo oo e ɓoornaade comci, so ina haani, o wallita jommbaajo debbo oo e ƴellitde mbaydi mum, e mbaydi ɓuuɓri, e deftere duwaawu, walla e jolngo mbaydi dewgal mum e nder ñalawma. E nder dewgal jokkere enɗam, mawɗo jommbaajo oo ina heewi halfineede jokkere enɗam jom suudu oo haa nde haani e nder kewu nguu. Heewɓe e jommbaajo debbo ina naamnoo jommbaajo debbo so tawii ko mawɓe, yo ngon seedeeji sariya siynooji kaayitaaji dewgal caggal nde kewu nguu joofi. So tawii ko jaɓɓungal woni caggal dewgal ngal, golloowo tedduɗo oo ina waawi naamneede yo rokku jom suudu keso oo toast.
Iwdi e daartol
Iwdi aadaaji jom suudu hirnaange ina gasa tawa ummorii ko e kawral geɗe keewɗe. Geɗe ɓurɗe teeŋtude ɗee ina njeyaa heen, kono ɗe kaɗaani, darnde e ngonka renndo-faggudu, mawnugol galleeji, tolnooji renndoyankooji ñalnde heen, e diine.
Deftere Fuɗɗoode (29:24, 29) ina siftina Leya e Rahiilu gooto fof ina wondi e rewɓe mum nde ɓe resndi Yaakuuba, ko ɗum woni ko won e daartooɓe
Tuugnorgal
[taƴto | taƴto ɗaɗi wiki]- ↑ Cowles, Charlotte (2024-07-11). "Get Premium Bridesmaid Dresses – Elegant Styles for Every Wedding". mondressy (in Engeleere). Retrieved 2024-07-27.
- ↑ Martin, Judith (2005). Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior, Freshly Updated. Kamen, Gloria. New York: W. W. Norton & Company. p. 383. ISBN 0-393-05874-3.
[I]n polite society...the bridesmaids' only duties are to make a special fuss over the bride by gathering around her at the wedding and, in the weeks before, by pretending to be interested in all the wedding details. It is also nice, but not obligatory, for them to plan a girlishly informal gathering—a luncheon or shower—for her beforehand.
- ↑ Martin, Judith (1999). Miss Manners on weddings. New York: Crown Publishers. pp. 136–137. ISBN 0-609-60431-7.
- ↑ Post, Emily (1922). Etiquette in Society, in Business, in Politics and at Home'. Funk & Wagnalls Company. pp. 335–337.
- ↑ Steinberg, Stephanie (28 June 2011). "How much does it cost to be a bridesmaid?". CNN.
- ↑ Steinberg, Stephanie (28 June 2011). "How much does it cost to be a bridesmaid?". CNN.
- ↑ "Maid of Honor Duties: A Modern Day Checklist of Roles and Responsibilities". Modern MOH. Retrieved 12 March 2019.